Works of Abul Baraa Muhamad Amreeki

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Part 5 Marriage advice the type of women to avoid for marriage – whores or used to be whores.

‪Avoid‬ women who used to be whores. Many cases these women is easy to sleep with another man while she  married due to, she upset with you, or seen a guy who looks nice, or mix with men at work. From Western culture in North/South America where the culture the women are very promiscuous many women live the lives as  described. There are many cases a women who used to be a whore enters Islam, and she still carries these traits. At times when she married, for the slightest reason she looks for problems due to the whore mentality , or she even sleeps and fools around with other men while she married. Or she deals with you how she used to deal with her lovers or pimps with her ill manners. Other reason is the spread of STD like HIV and AIDS, which is on a rise in many Western countries the US.

She can be a good sister but she always ask out from the marriage when their is marriage issues or problems, even at times when she dislike something small , due to being with a lot of men and is custom to being with different men all the time. She can wake up with you this morning and in her heart have no problem being with a different man that same night.

From al Wajeez of Shaykh Dr Abdul Adeem Badawi ( who I’ve spent some time with him studying fiqh):

Marrying a fornicatress

lt is not permissible for a man to marry a fornicatress or for a

woman to marry a fornicator, unless they have repented, as Allah

 has said:

“The adulterer marries not but an adulteress or a polytheist and the

adulteress none marries her except an adulterer or a polytheist, such a

thing is forbidden to the believers.,” (Qur’an 24: 3)

‘Amr ibn Shu’ayb narrated from his father on the authority of his

grandfather that Marthad ibn Abi Marlhad al-Ghanawi would bring

the captives (from Makkah to Madeenah) and in Makkah there was a

prostitute named ‘Anáq who was his friend. He said, “I came to the

Prophet and said, ‘O’ Messenger of Allah, can I marry ‘Anáq,’ He

did not say anything and then the verse was revealed, .The adulterer

marries not but an adulteress or a polytheist…. He called for me and

read that verse to me. Then he said, ‘Do not many her.’”

lts chain is hasan. Sec Shaykh al-AMni, Saheeh Sunan Nasá ‘i, no. 3027.

Recordcd by Abu Dawood, Nasa’i and Tirmidhi.

Note: that Islam wipes out a person sin before Islam, this is only advice and Allah accepts the repentance of the sincere slave.

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By Abul Baraa Muhammad Amreeki

This will be a new series of advice for Muslim men who live in North America related to marriage advice on what type of women to avoid for marriage.

The Prophet صلى الله و عليه و سلم said:

“The religion is naseehah (sincere advice).” We said, “To whom?” He صلى الله عليه و سلم said, “To Allah, His Book, His Messenger, to the leaders of the Muslims and their common folk.” (Bukhari and Muslim)

“so that, if any part of the body is not well then the whole body shares the sleeplessness (insomnia) and fever with it.” (Bukhari)

Ibn Hibban narrated in his work Nazahti Al-Fadlaa the advice of Al-Khattaab bin Mu’laa Al-Makhzoomee to his son. At the end of his words he mentioned the following: “Know that women vary more than the fingers of your hand. So be cautious in dealing with them.”

To be continue by Allah’s will with part 6 ……….