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Part 4 Marriage advice for Men looking to marry, type of women to avoid.
Avoid the women who have mental history and been diagnose by a doctor of having mental health issues, and she refuse to take her medication. Like bipolar, and sever case of depression. She might say “Iman rise and fall”, as an excuse not to take her medication.
You should look into a women mental medical history for it can be the cause of your marriage not working.
If she knows of this and take her medication and working on her issues with a doctor , counselor or Shaykh, or Imam. She can be married, but you should look into this due to many women suffer from this and take medication and marries and the man leaves her, some times he leave her in the middle of the night like a mouse creeping out the house. Or saying he going to the store and never return. Do not be like these brothers.
This will be a new series of advice for Muslim men who live in North America related to marriage advice on what type of women to avoid for marriage.
The Prophet صلى الله و عليه و سلم said:
“The religion is naseehah (sincere advice).” We said, “To whom?” He صلى الله عليه و سلم said, “To Allah, His Book, His Messenger, to the leaders of the Muslims and their common folk.” (Bukhari and Muslim)
Marriage advice for the men, these are just my opinions from many brothers older than me, and who been through the mud with marriages and advice from them. In many cases for married brothers and brothers who are single when people talk about issues related to marriage and things that happen in many cases you are looking into your own fate. So you should give your ear perhaps you can avoid problems in your marriage or looking for a spouse, through the experience of others. It is stated in a Hadith:
“so that, if any part of the body is not well then the whole body shares the sleeplessness (insomnia) and fever with it.” (Bukhari)
These post are not saying it forbidden to marry these type of women, it is gear towards clarity of what befalls a lot of women that cause their marriage not to work or leave the man with a lot of problems which he become regretful about. Due to Islam in America and other Western countries many converts come to Islam, and many times no one talks to him about these issues and he is left to learn on his own. This is gear towards revert Muslims and any other who it can reach.
Ibn Hibban narrated in his work Nazahti Al-Fadlaa the advice of Al-Khattaab bin Mu’laa Al-Makhzoomee to his son. At the end of his words he mentioned the following: “Know that women vary more than the fingers of your hand. So be cautious in dealing with them.”
Shaykh Salih al Uthymeen described in the seven type of women not to marry one of them being:
Al-Annaanah:The woman who whines, moans and complains and ‘ties a band around her head’ all the time (i.e. complains of a headache or some illness but in reality she is not sick, rather she is faking).
Those who disagree with these post , Imam Malik said: ” all speech is accepted or rejected except for the speech of the one in this grave”. He was speaking about the Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه و سلم.
To be continue by Allah’s will with part 5 ……….
By Abul Baraa Muhammad Amreeki
Works of Abul Baraa Muhamad Amreeki 
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